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If at first you don’t succeed, stop trying

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on July 18, 2011
“A problem can never be solved from the level at which it was created.” Albert Einstein

The other day I was stuck in a problem, and I couldn’t seem to find my way out. I had a client for whom I had to design a new program, and try as I might, I couldn’t fit in everything that “needed” to be included in the day’s agenda. There wasn’t enough time to cover the important things, or enough reflection space between topics for the important things to fully sink in.
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Three good things I learned from my Big Fat Horrible Boss

Posted by Robyn McLeod on July 14, 2011

In the new movie, Horrible Bosses, three very frightening managers make life miserable for their employees – lying, abusing, harassing, berating, and manipulating them – so much so that three friends band together to take matters into their own hands and end their misery. Now while I certainly never had a boss with the over-the-top behavior Hollywood created, the premise of the movie did bring to mind my own Horrible Boss experience.
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  1. I learned the power of documenting. Whenever we had a meeting I documented the conversation and deliverable s, captured that in a memo and sent it back for confirmation. This person once attempted to give me a false year end appraisal, and I was able to produce the documents that made him revise his position. The point was to make sure that as much light as possible could be brought to each and every engagement.

    • Robyn McLeod says:

      Thanks for your comment. Yes, documentation is often a necessity when you have a difficult boss. It provides the data and facts that can help to resolve problems between the two of you.

      Robyn

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From the eyes of a child

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on July 11, 2011
“It takes one a long time to become young.” Pablo Picasso

“Youth is wasted on the young,” they say. Children are born into this world full of curiosity, excitement for learning, and joy and appreciation for the simple beauty in life. These are all attitudes that are even more beneficial as we grow older, and yet somehow we simply lose them.
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  1. Very good insight, if only more of us felt the freedom to act this way. As we grow older, we feel we need to be responsible and certain behaviors are the norm while others are not tolerated. That begins the cycle. One of my professors use to rail on the faults of Pythagorean Dualism. She believed it to be responsible for the narrow view most adults take on all things. As I have grown older I find that to be the case. In our effort to quickly categorize, we prejudge most situations causing us to remove the youthful inquisitive nature that served us so well as children. What a waste of significant learned behavior

    • Lisa Kohn says:

      Thank you for your comment, Dwight. Yes, it is true that we can lose our curiosity and inquisitiveness as adults. However, the good news is that we can always choose to take a different approach and tap into that part of ourselves to open up our thinking.

      Lisa

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How do you walk the talk?

Posted by Lisa Kohn on June 9, 2011

I try to show up as intentionally in my work and life as I recommend my clients do. To “practice what I preach.” To “put my money where my mouth is.” And a myriad of other sayings. I think it’s important to do my best to walk the talk.
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Listen

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on May 2, 2011
“Listen to everyone. Ideas come from everywhere.” Tom Peters

I have a client whom I challenge to listen more fully to people – even people, and especially people, in whom he has no interest. “Go ahead,” I urge, “See what you can learn from them, especially since you expect to learn nothing.”
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Self-promotion is a good thing

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on March 14, 2011
“The opportunity to experience yourself differently is always available.” Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche

Have you ever noticed how stuck we get in our own perceptions, and especially our perceptions of ourselves? I hear it all the time – “that’s just the way I am,” people will share. “I always go too fast,” (or slow). “I’m never good at those things.” “I can’t do that.”
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Pondering the Fortune Cookie’s Question

Posted by Cathy Alfandre on February 23, 2011

“Do you see difficulty behind every opportunity, or opportunity behind every difficulty?”

Can you believe I found this question in a fortune cookie?!? What a delightfully unexpected and thoughtful question to ponder at the end of a take-out meal! What I especially love about it is the underlying, very actionable message: Sometimes what we need to make progress is a shift in perspective.
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  1. Cathy,
    Great perspective and a way to shift the paradigm. It is hard when you are looking up at the difficulties, to flip the script and look for the brighter side. Thank you for sharing this.

    • Cathy Alfandre says:

      Thanks, Dwight! Hopefully, with practice, we can all become better at remembering to shift our perspective on “difficult” things. I think it’s a challenge for all of us — it’s so natural to worry about and resist things that look hard…. But if we can flip the script, as you say (great expression, by the way!), we can lower our stress levels and really enjoy each day, no matter what presents itself. Thanks again for your comment!

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Choose your thoughts

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on November 15, 2010
“Nothing is either good or bad. It’s thinking that makes it so.” Benjamin Franklin

Have you ever noticed how two people can experience the same thing, and view it completely differently? You may walk out of a meeting and turn to your colleague with frustration and share, “That was the biggest waste of time I’ve ever experienced.” Your colleague looks at you with surprise and says, “Really? I thought we really got somewhere today!”
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Three simple steps to stop complaining and try a new perspective

Posted by Robyn McLeod on October 8, 2010

It is so easy to complain.  Walk into any office or stroll through the halls, and listen in.  It won’t take long before you hear griping and venting about something gone wrong or something blatantly unfair.  People complain – about their co-workers, their bosses, their latest assignments, even the weather.   What is the cost of lost hours and energy focused on complaining, I wonder?  Easily in the hundreds of millions of dollars.  Even more important, what if you could circumvent some of that complaining and help employees be more productive, simply by helping them think in a new way?
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We think we’re free to choose

Posted by Lisa Kohn on August 20, 2010

I just came upon this speech by Sheena Iyengar.  She was speaking at a TED conference on the art of choosing.  It’s twenty-four minutes, and it’s twenty-four minutes worth watching.
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