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Widening the path to leadership

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on January 31, 2011


“I don’t want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well.” Diane Ackerman

Leaders need followers, but so little time is spent talking, or writing (or blogging) about the followers. And the more potential “followers” I speak with, the more I hear the common refrain of wanting to follow, support, and rally behind and around someone who is broad, “well-rounded,” and real. Someone who has lived, and continues to live, the width of life.
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  1. Dear Lisa and Team,

    Re: Widening the path to leadership; I read this blog entry earlier this morning, and it really strkes a chord. It’s not a question of needing to be “best friends” with one’s manager, but the question is, why be so robotic? It’s true we are all very busy, but how can you truly build team rapport without some connection on a level other than completing tasks? Personally, I try to find some joy every day, but it’s harder to find within business hours.

    Thank you for this tasty food for thought. I feel less like the odd one out now for taking that lunch time gym break and keeping a rubber duck collection in my cubicle.

    With best regards, Beverly

    • Lisa Kohn says:

      Thanks for your comments Beverly. I applaud you for trying to find some joy every day – especially at work. What a gift we bring when we bring smiles to others faces within the work environment…and we’re still able to complete tasks and get stuff done! Enjoy your rubber ducks and thanks again for your comment.

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Are you a carrot, egg, or coffee bean?

Posted by Robyn McLeod on January 28, 2011

What pressures are you under right now? What difficulties are you facing? And how are you coping with them? For many of us, our approach to adversity is predictable. Some of us tense up and become harsh, some of us try our best to ignore the issue and hope it goes away, others give up and tolerate what’s happening. And there are those, whom I admire, who seem to find a way to rise to the occasion with focus and clarity and make the most of a bad situation – or in fact, turn it into a win for them.
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  1. It’s a nice story, however, when it comes to defining oneself, it’s easy to say “I’m this or that”… what truly determines a person is “consistency”.

    A person may handle a certain adversity well but next time, crumble. This is because problems come in different forms and degrees, hence, one should have the stamina in terms of aspiration, confidence and support system to continue to face life’s battles.

    We are ALL coffee beans at one point, but a TRUE coffee bean is one who has the “courage” to change the traditional way of doing things, of stepping out of the status quo… and in our case, in terms of business operations. For instance, “work experience” is simply repetition which means one is exposed to the same situation most of the time where if there are changes it’s only slight and if ever it’s heavy, it comes only once in a blue moon. Therefore, more valuable than experience are… brains, character, enthusiasm, adaptability, and good health.

    It’s the body that takes in problems, the heart that withstands adversity, and the head that solves them.

    • Robyn McLeod says:

      Thank you for your thoughtful response — you make a number of good points. I agree that our ability to deal with the many faces of adversity has a lot to do with what we’ve dealt with in the past, our inner fortitude, attitude, and the support system we can tap into when needed. And yes, sometimes being the coffee bean takes courage!

  2. Reina Rodriguez says:

    I agree with Jesse Domingo. Consistency is really hard! It’s really easy to say…but quite another thing TO DO those things consistently! CONGRUENCY in life is what I would really aspire to achieve and I love coffee…so it is a lovely way for me to remember it! Thanks!

    • Robyn McLeod says:

      Thanks for your comment, Reina. Yes, consistency can be hard to achieve, and congruence is a powerful aspiration to carry us through. The coffee bean metaphor is a great way to remember it!

  3. Reina Rodriguez says:

    Thank you!…even though I am now retired…it’s still something to achieve in our life journey! And having my daily cup of coffee with my wonderful husband, while I enjoy the birds and nature…is truly the best!!!

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Are you vulnerable to an employee exodus?

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on January 25, 2011

As signs of economic improvement appear, leaders like you are asking themselves how they can be sure to retain their best employees – many of whom may be sought after by other employers and may be frustrated or dissatisfied with changes that have taken place in your organization over the last couple of years. Last week our blog post on rebuilding trust, The key word is TRUST, addressed this issue and offered ideas for getting ahead of the potential employee turnover and creating a climate where employees can once again be engaged, productive, and successful.
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Failing…to learn

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on January 24, 2011

“If you’re not failing every now and again, it’s a sign you’re not doing anything innovative.” Woody Allen

At work and at life we often get caught in ruts. Something works for us, so we do it again and again. And again. We know we’ve reduced our chances of making a mistake or failing, and that feels good.
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Make a difference, one starfish at a time

Posted by Lisa Kohn on January 21, 2011

Sometimes I question whether the efforts I take for myself, my clients, my family and friends, and even, at times, the world, make a difference. And then I think of the Starfish Story – adapted from The Star Thrower by Loren Eiseley. Read it below and tell me what you think. Do our little efforts perhaps add up to making a difference?  I invite you to visit my Q&A on my LinkedIn profile and add your examples of people making small differences that add up.
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How to get out of your own way

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on January 17, 2011


“If you think you can, you can. If you think you can’t, you’re right.” Henry Ford

Recently a client was facing a challenge at work, a “growth opportunity” if you will, a chance to lead a team through an intense project – and she knew she couldn’t handle it.
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  1. Tirza says:

    Thank you Chatsworth Consulting for this timely Thoughtful Leaders Minute. For the last couple of days I’ve been allowing doubt to creep in and not turning to my faith and support to keep me focused and balanced. This in addition to a scripture I read this morning has reminded me of something I know, but I sometimes forget – I can do it! Keep’em coming….

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The key word is TRUST

Posted by Robyn McLeod on January 14, 2011

Of all of the many workplace issues we encounter, one of the most impactful and pervasive is lack of trust. Quite often employees’ mistrust surfaces in times of change. As change occurs, employees will have questions – most unasked – about the reason for and impact of the changes. They will want to know how the change will affect them personally. They will be watching, waiting, and talking around the water cooler about what they see and what they believe is happening. If organizational change is not accompanied by visible and accessible leadership, effective communication, and opportunities to provide input and engage in dialogue, trust will be damaged.
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Five Lessons from the UConn Huskies on Achieving Goals

Posted by Cathy Alfandre on January 12, 2011

“Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.” – Vince Lombardi

If you follow sports as I do, then you have no doubt heard about the University of Connecticut women’s basketball team. Just a few weeks ago, they met and exceeded the longest winning streak EVER in college basketball history (men’s or women’s) with 90 straight wins, stretching over 3 seasons, before losing to another team on December 30th.
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Take a risk

Posted by Chatsworth Consulting Group on January 10, 2011


“And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.” Erica Jong

I’ve wanted to be a photographer for a very, very long time. Before founding Chatsworth Consulting Group I was determined to quit the workforce and become an “artist” – to devote myself to photography fulltime and make a go at it. Then someone convinced me that I might want to apply my then newly earned MBA and expertise through consulting instead. I’ve loved nearly every minute of it, and I’ve never looked back.
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Failure is a good thing

Posted by Lisa Kohn on January 7, 2011

I have a coaching client (I’ll call her Jane) who convinced me today that failure can truly be a good thing.

We were catching up during our session this morning, and Jane related to me a few episodes where she had “failed,” and where those failures worked out in the long run and gave her much more than she might have received had she “succeeded.”
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